The Relationship Codex helps you decode the cryptic language of intimacy: what you and the people you love are actually saying and needing underneath the words. It begins with the hardest translation, intimacy with yourself.
Free. Ten minutes. No account required.
As an intimacy facilitator, Liliana Coventina spent years in the room with couples, decoding what they were actually saying and needing underneath the words. The Relationship Codex is that decoder, made into something you can use on your own. It starts with the hardest translation of all: intimacy with yourself.
Meet Liliana
Most of us were never taught how to read what we feel, ask for what we need, or hear
what someone else is actually saying. The Relationship Codex teaches that, step by step.
You learn to decode the pattern, name what is happening, and practice saying the true
thing. It begins with you, because every relationship is downstream of the one you have
with yourself.
Fluency in intimacy. Starting with self.
The pattern quiz and C.O.D.E.X surface what keeps repeating across your relationships.
WhyYou cannot change what you have not yet been able to see.
Somatic prompts and nervous system literacy, woven through every page.
WhyInsight without regulation never holds. The body has to come too.
Guided pathways and small, repeatable reps you can actually sustain.
WhyChange is a practice, not an epiphany. Reps are what rewire.
Reflection, the Tribe witnessing you, and time held in a safe container.
WhyIt is yours only when it stops being effort and becomes who you are.
Ready to begin?
Every surface designed as ritual, not software. Here is what you step into.
Your evolving relational map, your depth, your practice, rendered as emotional astronomy rather than a dashboard. You arrive and immediately feel seen instead of measured.
An AI that will not just flatter you, and will not shame you either. It gently reflects your patterns, notices when you are circling a wound, and asks the question worth sitting with. Honest and warm. It always returns you to the people in your life, never replaces them.
Self, partner, family, the circle, the body. Living nodes that hold state: active, fractured, repaired, integrating. You watch your relational world shift as you do the work.
This platform only works
if you tell the truth.
About your relationships.
Your patterns.
Your defenses.
Your loneliness.
So we built protection into the architecture itself.
Encrypted.Confidential.Crisis-aware.Never sold.
Your story stays yours.
A vision this big cannot live in a single feature. Lasting change needs an entire world to hold it.
Guided paths through attachment, consent, repair, and nervous system literacy. Paced for integration, not consumption. The structure you move through.
You do not change in isolation. The Tribe is the circle of people walking this beside you: witnessed, met, co-regulated. Relational repair needs other nervous systems in the room.
Ceremonial markers, not achievements. Each one earned through real relational work and held as intimate proof of how far you have come. This is gamification with a soul.
Trained humans holding the container under an explicit ethical code. Where the work needs more than a screen, a real person is there.
The play is not a trick to keep you scrolling. It is regulated momentum: the parts that make change feel alive, paced so it builds you up instead of burning you out. That is why we did not build an app. We built an world big enough to hold the vision.
Before you commit to anything, play with the real thing. The Fries of Consent is a free, interactive experience built on the same engine as everything behind the paywall. Consent literacy, gamified for the nervous system, dressed up in something your inner child will actually sit down for. This is what an example class looks like, and how our technology holds a framework most people only ever talk about.
The pattern quiz is the front door. Ten minutes, no account, built to the same principles as everything behind it. Start there, and feel the difference for yourself.